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Do you ever find yourself making a purchase and later wondering, ‘Why did I buy that?’
Whether it’s a flash sale or just a little retail therapy, we all face moments where impulse takes over.
But here is the good news. You can take control.
In this video, we will look into 5 simple, proven tips to help you spend smarter, stay on track, and ditch buyer’s remorse—fast.
1. Make a Shopping List (And Stick to it)
Before heading to the store or shopping online, write down exactly what you need.
Ask yourself a quick set of questions to determine if the item is a need or a want.
Do I need this to solve a problem? (e.g., food, clothing for warmth)
Will I use this regularly? (e.g., more than once a month)
Can I afford it without compromising my budget?
If the answer to most is “no,” it’s likely a want, not a need.
Having a clear list helps you focus on what you truly need and avoid wandering into unnecessary purchases.
Tip: Snap a photo of your list on your phone—harder to ignore than a mental note!
2. Wait It Out with the 24-Hour Rule
Time is your filter. See anything non-essential that you think you might want?
Wait 24 hours to decide if you truly need it.
Impulse buys often stem from excitement or urgency. For example, it's not uncommon to overspend during time limit sales or“buy one, get one” deals. These type of sales often create a false sense of urgency, making you purchase items that you don't need in the first place.
Waiting 24 hours lets the initial thrill fade, allowing you to assess if the item aligns with your needs or values.This cooling-off period helps separate emotional impulses from rational decisions.
Tip: Add the item to your cart (online or mentally). If you still want it after the 24 hour wait—and it fits your budget—then consider buying.
3. One In, One Out
For every new item you buy, commit to removing an existing item from your home by donating, selling, or recycling.
Impulse buying often leads to clutter, which can cause stress. This is counter to your mindfulness goals.
Keep clutter in check and make every buy count. Before grabbing something new—like a shirt or a gadget—pick something old to ditch. Donate it, sell it, whatever works. It forces you to ask: ‘Is this really worth the space?’
Tip: Before making a purchase, visualize your home and ask, “What will I let go of if I buy this?” This mental check can deter unnecessary purchases.
4. Practice the “Three Gratitudes” Pause
What makes you hit ‘buy’? Stress? Boredom? A ‘last chance’ sale? Figure it out, then fight back. Unsubscribe from promo emails, skip aimless browsing, and swap emotional shopping for a walk or a good book. Less temptation, more control.
Before buying, pause to name three things you’re already grateful for in your life, shifting your focus from lack to abundance.
Impulse buying often stems from a feeling of scarcity or wanting to fill an emotional void. By reflecting on gratitude, you reframe your mindset to appreciate what you already have.
Tip: Keep a gratitude journal or use a quick mental checklist. When tempted to buy, take 30 seconds to list your three gratitudes, then reassess if the purchase still feels necessary.
5. Set a Spending Cap (And Mean It)
A budget creates boundaries, ensuring you don’t overspend or feel regret later.
Decide how much you can spend for specific categories like groceries, entertainment, online shopping, or on fun stuff—like clothes or gadgets—each month.
Stick to it. Treat unused funds as savings for future needs or special purchases. It’s like giving yourself a reward for saying ‘no’ to impulse buys.
Tip: Create a “fun fund” in your budget to enjoy guilt-free spending on non-essentials.
And that’s it—5 easy steps to stop impulse buying in its tracks. You’ve got the tools now; it’s all about small choices that add up big. Every ‘no’ today is a ‘yes’ to something better tomorrow.